Taking the Initiative

I don’t appreciate when clients ask when I’ll be visiting/touring/returning to a city or only want to see me if my incall fee is waived, because that tells me they only want to see me if I pay for my own travel and hotel, which I find very rude. I’ve been so fortunate to have amazing clients book me for FMTYs and treat me to beautiful hotels, and those clients who go the extra mile to see and spoil me fill my heart. They take the initiative to spend time with me and cover expenses, and I find that extremely attractive. I love when someone goes after what they want and makes sure I don’t have to worry about costs, because it shows me they respect my time.

Touring and hosting are very expensive after I combine the costs of flights, hotels, transportation, and food. The clients who book FMTYs and pay my incall fee know that, and I appreciate that they still want to see me despite it. The clients who ask me “when can I fly you out?” will forever be more admired than those who ask “when will you visit?”