FAQ

and policies :)

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  • I aim to give each date the attention it deserves, and a deposit ensures that you are equally as invested in our date as I am.

    -A deposit of 50% of the consideration plus any additional fees (incall, travel)

    -Deposits can be made via CashApp, YouPay, BTC, or ETH. I do not accept PayPal, Venmo, or Zelle.

    -Dates are only secured and confirmed after the deposit is received.

    -Deposits are non-refundable except in the rare case I need to cancel.

    -The remaining balance is due in cash concealed in an unsealed envelope within the first 5 minutes.

  • Due to leading a busy personal life I do enforce a cancellation policy.

    -No-shows will automatically be blocked.

    Local Dates

    -Cancellations with at least 72 hrs of notice your deposit can be applied towards a future date in the next 30 days. Incall fees are non-transferable, and must be secured with another deposit. This is because I secure a space well in advance, and I'm unable to receive a refund.

    -Cancellations with less than 72 hrs of notice your deposit will be used as a cancellation fee.

    -Cancellations with less than 48 hrs of notice 100% of the total fee is required.

    FMTY/Tour Dates

    -Cancellations with at least 7 days of notice your deposit can be applied towards a future date in the next 30 days. FMTY fees are non-transferable, and must be secured with another deposit. This is because I secure a flight well in advance, and I'm unable to receive a refund.

    -Cancellations with less than 7 days of notice your deposit will be used as a cancellation fee.

    -Cancellations with less than 72 hrs of notice 100% of the total fee is required.

  • Screening is mandatory for all new clients, and I’ve never met a client without it. I take my safety and your privacy very seriously. The safer I feel with you the more comfortable I'll feel on our date. Your information will be destroyed when it’s no longer needed, and I'm happy to sign an NDA if you wish.

    I accept two options for screening:

    Option 1: 1 picture of your valid ID + 1 selfie holding your ID

    Option 2: LinkedIn (at least 300 connections) + a notification (invite request, blank message, etc.) sent to my LinkedIn

    I do not accept references or review sites as a form of screening.

  • My health is extremely important to me, my current company, and my future friends. I take my health very seriously and expect you to too, so we can have more private encounters in the future.

    When meeting I anticipate you to be a gentleman. Mutual consent and respect is required at all times. If I feel uncomfortable or unsafe at anytime, then it is your understanding that I have the right to discontinue the session without refund.

    Soapy showers, neat grooming, and fresh breath are always a great way to start a date on a high note! If you don’t have time to freshen up before our date I’ll be happy to provide a shower and mouthwash. Feel free to bring your own toiletries if you prefer.

    It is expected that all expenses are taken care of by the client.

  • Tips and gifts are never expected, but they never go unnoticed and always put a huge smile on my face no matter how big or small. Pre and/or post date gifts are a great way to tell me you’re excited about our upcoming date or you enjoyed our current one. I tend to prefer cash gifts/tips as it allows me to invest in the various parts of my life most important to me, but if gift giving is more your love language I’ve got a large selection of material items on my wishlist. I also love to receive fresh flowers, and Social Flowers is a great option to send me a bouquet.

  • I offer one reference per visit seen in the past three months. Additional references are $100 within this timeframe.

  • I do not wish to participate in the review culture, so please keep our moments together private. However if you would like to express your appreciation post-date a private email is always nice to read.

  • I travel between Boston and Providence for no extra fee, so I'm happy to meet you in either city. Occasionally I'll tour domestic and international cities, so please check my Calendar page to see my current whereabouts.

  • I'm so glad that you want to spend time together, and don't be nervous I don't bite. I'm just a regular person you might find on the street who also happens to enjoy the company of an engaging individual in my free time. I try to display some of my personality on my website and socials, so you can feel more acquainted before we meet.

    My time is valuable and should be respected, so please start by filling out my booking form. My booking form tells me everything I need to know about you and our date.

    Scheduling a date with me should only take 3 emails:

    1. Client fills out booking form + sends screening

    2. I confirm date + request deposit

    3. I confirm received deposit

    Reading my website and understanding my expectations show me you're just as serious and excited about our date as I am, which makes me more eager to answer questions or requests.

    I'll reach out the day before to confirm our date, but feel free to contact me with any questions or logistics. Please refrain from any other excess communication outside these boundries unless you wish to compensate me appropriately for my time.

  • I welcome people of all experience levels including those who have limited or none. I aim to create a safe and judgmental free space so we can explore your wishes and desires at a pace you're most comfortable with. I'll never do anything you or I am uncomfortable with, so please don't be afraid to speak up with any questions or requests. Forming connections should be exciting, unrushed, and pleasurable, which is why I recommend at least 2 hours for our first meeting. This allows us to take our time to get to know each other and ease into things at a slower pace. Time really does fly when you're having fun. You might find meeting over dinner or drinks in a public setting first as a more natural introduction.

  • My ideal date is someone who is kind, respectful, and clean. I don't discriminate based on shape, size, gender, disability, ethnicity, or experience.

  • I specialise in providing a bespoke GFE, and I believe intimacy should evolve naturally instead of preselected from a menu. The connections I have are unique to each relationship, and I'm sure you'll be very satisfied by the end.

    I am a very kink-friendly, open minded and adventurous person, who loves to explore most things at least once. I have experience being an obedient sub, however I’ve also enjoyed my limited experience on the more dominant side (humiliation, pegging, tease and denial). If you’re interested in exploring a new/existing kink or fetish, then please reach out to see if our interests intersect.

  • I know how to dress the part whether it's a casual lunch, fine dining, or a hike in the mountains. If there's something specific you'd like me to wear, then I can see what I already have in my wardrobe. Otherwise, you're welcome to provide additional compensation so I can purchase a specific piece/look for our date or I'm happy to provide sizing for a surprise outfit. I always believe in quality over quantity when curating my wardrobe.

  • I offer companionship through quality dates. How you decide to spend your time is up to you.